What does BDSM mean to me?
Well, it really means freedom, does it not? The realization that we do not all get off the same way…that we can be unique without seeming weird.
There are aspects of BDSM that I simply do not get…examples are numerous that just go beyond my being able to stomach…but I can still respect those that do.
The fact that some like oral sex while riding hippos and using horse whips…on each other…it is proof of our diversity. The fact that to some, keeping the lights on is kink enough…well, that’s just scary.
Now, if we could just all accept the theory that everyone…each and every last one of us…has some kink. It just varies in degrees.
Whether it be that couple who giggle at keeping the lights on, or the two guys who put collars on each other during a double penetration threesome…we all have our place in the world.
BDSM…boldly doing something mischievous…I solemnly swear to be up to something naughty.
Pull a little hair…
Make a little love…
Get down tonight!
LOVE IT. 🙂
Boldly doing something mischievous… I love this take on the acronym!! 😀
Kazi xxx
I totally missed that when reading! Thanks for bringing it to my attention, Kazi (and thanks for writing it, Stranded!).
xx Dee
This is a great take on it! Love it!
We are officially amused. 🙂
🙂 I do like this. Also, hello! Long time no chat.
Love it! When someone asks about “kink”, my answer is always the same: Define kink. What’s taboo or kink for one may be a totally normal part of everyday life for another – this in and of itself makes the word entirely relative. Sadly, for many, thinking of it this way seems to take away from the allure and excitement because the thought of being different is or was part of the turn on for them. To those, please remember that even if you’re doing something a million others are doing, no one is going to do it quite like you.
The last part really made me giggle!! Thanks.
A great post and I totally agree! We should just all respect each other’s choices, right? Why judge anyone else for the choice they have made?
Yes, we all have some kink!
Rebel xox
LOVE the acronym 🙂
Great acronym 😉
Made me giggle!
Yes, it is the freedom from the constrains that society deems ‘normal’ or ‘acceptable’. Once those constraints are lifted, then a whole vast array, a veritable buffet of choices becomes apparent. Well written…as always.
Rachel x
things can be a little harry as we are the potter in our BDSM world. Great write as we all live it a bit differently
I do so love your humour & take on it.. In fact on everything..
Pea ~x~